Now I have to hear comments biknii my friends as they are all privy to what my girlfriend looks like with all but no clothes on. Open communication is key. What, specifically, does your girlfriend want you to do to show that you love her?
As long as her requests are reasonable i.
Or actually meeting up with them on a regular basis? An occasional email with an ex is somewhat reasonable; weekly lunches with everyone she ever dated bikink not.
Without knowing you or her or the situation, I say, follow your gut on this one. If it seems sketchy…it probably is.
Ask her to stop. You got a job as a barista? Okay, on to the job issue.
The bikini barista gig is a bummer for you, I get that. I mean, some of your friends have probably seen your girlfriend with a swimsuit on, right?
Not much of a difference. What you really object to is that her job requires her to basically sell a look at her body. As for what you Ths do—you have to figure out if you can accept that she has this job. I know nothing about your girlfriend, what her previous work experience or education is, but it seems like if she can get a job as a barista, she can likely exhra a job as a waitress or bartender.
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