Guess I just jumped into that one kind of quick. No antidote, no interesting story, no joke … right to the point. So lets work backwards on this post … see how that works out.
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I had to read this post a couple of times and think about what I really wanted to say.
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With Antidate, I completely agree, especially with the second comment. Looking good and providing midly interesting conversation on the first dates is not work. For the "courting" period … its all us.
SBM, well since you elaborated a bit, I can soften my stance a bit.: I can see what you mean and I guess since I've never been that type of woman I think I lary I'm 34 now Horny single women 92406 really can't relate.
I was like that when Lacy was younger too, though. Dealing with boys who didn't like me is a waste of my time. So if I liked you then we were comminicating point blank. Initially the tone I got was that you felt like you was a bit too good to be calling these chicks.
And you and Anti keep hollering about these Interestee who Interested sbm for decent lady in I need some head a s a p work.
Sounds to me like you need to be a bit more selective, eh? Honestly, I think I'm too selective. I have dismissed girls for the quality of their college, the type of shoes whe wore on a date only once … and she wore water shoes … like the ones you wear in the poolor not knowing what a word meant. Given that … please tell me when is it that a women has to put in work?!?!?!?
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Older women aren't as hung up in these "games"! Dammit she is right. Your fod to have to explain that one to me? You think women have decided to pursue too much and has Interested sbm for decent lady us bitch-like in the Becancour girl fuck black guy Thou hast read my mind or maybe my blog lol. My latest and greatest was about the need for men to Man Up. I didn't really write it from the perspective of how women treat men — it was about Society in ldy.
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So yall need to step it all the way up. Have the pity party but cast all the society stuff aside. Do I tell you all how much I love my readers … and thats the honest truth. My mind would turn to mush without you all. Antidater is actually a real good friend of mine … well before this blogging. I would say we should get together and write Interdsted book, but black people at least the ones in need of the knowledge don't read anymore.
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I am not blaming Society. It is rather a realization that there are some extra hurdles erected by sistuhs for brothas to jump over. Why is it coddling for a sistuh to return a brothas call or show some Indicator of Interests per SBM's point? SBM had Sluts in Birmingham pa post a while back about it being ok for a woman to call. We have the presumption that men are seeking to be equal partners in relationships — not the traditional male-dominated Interested sbm for decent lady.
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If that's the case — why not put in an equal amount of work, partner? CBG … Intfrested "O" starts tripping … give my man a chance. Solid guy … lol. I'm not soft or bitchy … just hate being forced to chase aimlessly with no cor of interest, then getting cursed out when I lose interest.
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